I met a guy few months ago and has already proposed to me. I want to check his background. where do I start/?
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This man is a highly educated person that lived out of the country for the last three years. He has returned and is looking for employment. He seemed to have achieved a lot but I still want to check on his activities before leaving the country (USA). there are many background check agencies online but not sure of any. Help. Don’t want to put the cart before the horse
9 Comments
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
Go to your local police and have them run a check on him if you are that concerned. Or try going to credit check online and type in his information and have it mailed to your address. Make sure he does not find out, he may get upset and there will be no wedding.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
He’s proposed after only a few months, and you want to run a background check? Sounds like trouble in paradise before you’re even out of the courtship phase.
He’s got the cart before the horse by proposing before you even know each other. Warning bells should be going off in your head big time.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
first of all………….assume all he tells you is a LIE!……then start with his local Police Station. And if you re thinking of relocating to another country with him……..make sure you know of what VISA laws that country has……and how easy will it be for you to get out…..if the relationship goes bad.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
Go to the FBI web site http://www.fbi.gov/hq/cjisd/fprequest.htm
with a $18.00 doller money order they send you a report of his whole criminal, credit banckruptcy, offenses, even parking tickets information
the only downside, you need to send in his fingure prints
good luck
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
I’ve heard stories of arabian men marrying women in the USA and making them ‘visit’ the person’s home country (In the story I remember, it was Iran). Once at the country, the woman was beaten and forced to work, and the "true" man was coming out. She thought she’d get to leave, but he never let her, she eventually had to escape through help from the local embassy.
Be warned, be very warned….I think it is wise you are looking into the man.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
For starters try Intelius.com it was pretty helpful for me.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
well i would not say yes at this time .you just met him …and to do a back ground check go to the poilce station and ask question’s i think you should take your time alot of ppl. change after they get married …. do you beleave a few months is enough time with someone to get to really know them he is asking you to spend the rest of your life with him ..i would do some thinking and i think a backgroud check is a great idea….good luck and i hope everything works out for you
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
Run away from him. He cant be trusted.
September 6th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
It’s great that you want to check his background and you certainly should check it, but I wouldn’t even consider marriage at this point in your relationship. A background check would only give his known criminal history. There may be a lot more than what is known – he may be a criminal and hasn’t gotten caught yet. He may be someone who sponges off women, he may do drugs or sell drugs, he may molest children. There’s a whole list of things!
Get to know him better before marrying him. If he truly loved you, he would wait for you.